“Thank you Andrea you were great! everything was amazing, exactly as we imagined, you were engaging and true.”

Yes, these are many of the words that I pleasantly get to read in a message or email as early as the day after the event.

I am indeed always very grateful and excited whenever this complete satisfaction is shared with me, but the point is another.

I often like to think of this phrase I read years ago while studying in the United States in New York City to become a celebrant and mental coach: thought creates matter and our actions are the materialization of a multitude of thoughts.

A crazy truth!

Of course, once we have our idea, our thought you have to do a bit like you do with a plant that needs the right amount of water and light, the necessary care for it to grow healthy and last.

We have to take action to make this thought of ours come to fruition.

Certainly it is that if even before we experience the reality we engage, instead, in imagining the most catastrophic and terrible situations, in painting this picture in gloomy colors ( many are masters at this) losing sight of what we had initially created in the mind, then, in that case we will be much more likely that the reality we will experience will be such or very similar.

Therefore, when after a wedding celebration or a vocal performance, I find a feedback expressed so well where one understands that a person has put his or her own effort even before in imagining everything as he or she has always dreamed it, I realize that our mind is a very powerful creative tool.

When used in a useful way, the mind can really be a great ally!

So, the secret is definitely to focus on what you passionately want, defining well in your mind the details of the situation, see the circumstances, begin to feel the sensations and foretaste the taste of happiness!

In all this I certainly do my part by guiding those who choose me to realize in the best possible way what they desire in their minds, conveying that humanity and passion that is characteristic of those whose work has made their lives.